Many of us move through life feeling like something about us isn’t quite right; something needs to be fixed. It’s usually a subtle feeling or “something I should be working on.” We’re never quite where we want to be. We’re just not enough…yet. That was certainly the case for me. While it’s true that growth […]
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Most people move through their lives without realizing how much they’re missing. Not because life isn’t happening, but because they are not fully aware of it while it unfolds. Awareness is the skill that changes that. Awakening Your Awareness There is a subtle difference between existing and truly living. Most of us move through our days
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Self-abandonment feels like accommodation, compromise, compliance. It begins with small, reasonable adjustments. Don’t say that—it will make things harder. Don’t want that—it’s unrealistic. Be flexible. Be grateful. Be easy. Over time, these small acts of self-silencing are rewarded. You’re praised for being low-maintenance. Reliable. Adaptable. Strong. And slowly, almost imperceptibly, you learn that fitting in
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If you pay attention to your thoughts, you’ll see that they are continuous. Constant. Endless. That’s what your brain does. It thinks. But what does it think about? What occupies most of your brain’s time, energy, and attention? It’s yourself. Nearly half of our waking hours are spent in mind-wandering, much of it centered on
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