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Strategic Impact Goals for Level 10 Life
One of the frustrations people experience with goal-setting frameworks like the Level 10 Life (sometimes called 10/100) is this: You identify ten domains that matter.You
Level 10 Life
The start of a new year carries a lot of promise and excitement. Fresh calendars. Big intentions. A collective sense of this is the year
Self-Trust: A Skill That Isn’t Talked About
Becoming depends on self-trust Boundaries require self-trust Self-Love grows from self-trust But what is self-trust, really? Self-trust is the ability to make decisions, handle mistakes,
Seasonal Cycles for Personal Development
Modern personal development often treats growth as something that should be constant—always optimizing, always improving, always pushing forward. You know–hustle culture. But living systems don’t
No is a Complete Sentence
One of the things we people‑pleasers are very good at…is pleasing people. We like to make sure everyone else feels comfortable and has what they
Boundaries Don’t Have to be Scary
Most of us don’t struggle with boundaries because we don’t understand the definition. We struggle with it because we are taught slowly, subtly, and repeatedly
Belonging
Culture often teaches us to trade authenticity for acceptance: Be agreeable enough, and you’ll be included. Be useful enough, and you’ll be kept. Be small
The Season of Love
The season of love doesn’t have to mean love only for others. February tells us we should show our love outward—through grand gestures, romantic candlelit
The Voice That Shapes Your Life
The voice you hear most in your life is not the loudest one in the room.It isn’t your boss, your partner, your parents, or the
From Implementation to Integration: The Psychology of Lasting Change
You’ve set a goal. Chosen a habit. Installed a new mindset. You’ve implemented the change. But something’s still missing. Implementation is the beginning, not the
Un-Stuck Yourself
Un-Stuck Yourself: The One Word That Makes It Possible Most people don’t avoid change because they’re lazy or unmotivated. They avoid it because they’re convinced
26 Steps to Growth in 2026
As I welcome the beginning of 2026, I’m not interested in resolutions that fade by February or vision boards that end up tucked away in
The Becoming List
For most of my life, I kept lists: to-do lists, goal lists, productivity systems stacked on top of other productivity systems. They worked for life
Cocoon, Collapse, and Coming Home
An open letter to the Insightful Spark community For the last couple of years, I’ve been cocooning—folding myself away from all the things while I
October Playlist
Seasonal cycles are a big part of personal development and coaching for me. They serve as markers on the wheel of the year and reminders
The Magic of Crafting Your Emotional Experience
Crafting a clear vision of the ideal day in your ideal life and then revising it as you grow and gain insight and clarity is
Keeping Agreements
As the end of February approaches I want to check in with you and see where you are in relation to your resolutions and goals
SMART Goals: Brilliant or Bogus?
“Science” and “the research” say that people are more likely to meet their goals if they are SMART goals. So, what are SMART goals? It’s
APOLOGY UNACCEPTABLE
Hey. Welcome back. We felt we owed you an apology. Sorry for being away so long. Sorry for leaving you hanging during a pandemic and
THE STATE OF AMERICA: Having Hard Conversations
Recently, the state of America has been chaotic. At least, it’s felt that way to me. Within the perceived chaos of the country is a
Habit Stacking
Humans are creatures of habit. We tend to like routines. Even if some of us are considered spontaneous, we spend most of our days repeating
Viral Anxiety
After a short hiatus, we decided to return with a piece addressing the elephant in the room – feelings that may be arising because of
Grace
Ahhh, Grace. We typically think of grace as the attribute we don’t have: elegance in movement and attitude, which some of us may actually have.
Creating Lasting Structure
“When I start building, I don’t set out to build a beautiful wall. My intention is a lasting structure. Throughout the day, I apply my